but I see that Xlobby is not that free app. that it was always promised to be? Or am I missing something?
Yeah, you are missing something. The fact that you still can download the free xlobby, so in a sense it is still available, it just isn't updated anymore. The majority of plugins still work. If you want constant updates to the main core, and a new skinning engine...and alot of other flashy things, then you have to pay for that.
You know, no offense, your about 2 years too late to be bringing this up again. If you choose to continue to use the free version, there are plenty of us still around that will be willing to lend you a hand should your require it. Or you could try one of the other free aps, such as: Meedio(s), XBMC, MediaPortal, GBPVR, GAM, or one of the many Linux flavours.
Good luck.